You don't bring me flowers

When not to fuck a buddy. I don't know the answer to this question because I just fucked one, a good one, one that I may or may not love. I feel odd, that is all. Maybe I am just tired. I need to think about this.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Tough question.

I reckon though, if you've got a friend with whom this can take place, without any extra emotional attachment, then it could possibly be a really good situation.

Certainly beats sitting at home alone filled with sexual tension with no-one but moi to entertain.

However, I understand that odd feelings may follow. I guess it depends on how much emotion you attach to sex. Is it necessary, or even warranted, to attach too much to it, or can it simply be allowed to be that primal urge that every creature on the planet gets given to help drive us onward and not simply be content with introspective naval gazing.

Can you tell that I'm a little pent-up at the moment?
NWJR said…
Certainly beats sitting at home alone filled with sexual tension with no-one but moi to entertain.

True, that.
DS said…
That depends. On a lot of things I reckon. It depends on how long I can keep pushing out this hollow buzz I'm feeling. I don't know what feeling it is trying to make me feel, I'm trying desperately not to let it in.
Anonymous said…
explore the hollow buzz.
it could be wanting you to check your feelings for the friend, or it could be you, subconsciously, expecting that you should be feeling more in light of what's happened. and if you truly dont feel any deep emotional feelings, something deep inside wonders why, therefore leaving you feeling a little hollow.
remember, primally, it's okay to have sex without emotion (deep emotion i mean), but socially, i think we are conditioned to expect deep feelings to be tied with sex. can you embrace the primal and not be sideswiped by the social?
Anonymous said…
btw

you can do this

whatever this turns out to be

;-)